About this blog

I decided to write this blog because I have been trying to find information about strokes and how it affects the family rather than just the person who had the stroke. Most of the stuff I found was just support groups and how family can help the patient. I didn't find many personal stories of how it affected the family as a whole, and didn't find any blogs about the carers. Usually, the focus is on the person who has had the stroke, but those who are directly involved in their care, are misrepresented. And so - Who cares for the carers? was launched. I have crammed the first month into a few posts since we are only a month into his recovery, but once I am up to date, I will update any time there is anything to tell. I would love to hear from anyone in a similar situation, or even if reading this blog has hit a chord or helped anyone, then my job will be done. It is also therapy for me to be able to write what's on my mind. The road to recovery is a long one, both for the sufferer and their families.

Monday 29 June 2009

One day we'll catch a break

A couple of weeks ago we went to see the housing people who informed us that we could claim housing benefit to help with the cost of the rent while we wait for a council house to become available, which could take an eternity. Then we found out that our child tax credits had gone up, and we thought things were finally looking up for us.

And now we're back down to earth with a very big bump. The council wrote to the letting agent and landlord asking for a reference, and now we have recieved a letter from the letting agent telling us that if we get a council house during the tenancy, we will still have to pay rent AND any utilities on the property until the agreement runs out. That's April 2010!! This is not good news for us, because we can barely afford the rent as it is, let alone the bills that go with it. We're going to seek legal advice to see if there are any loopholes around this because we will be in serious debt if we are forced to stay here for another 9 months.

We also have the stroke nurse coming this afternoon, so hopefully she'll be able to help us with some of our problems. Will update after she's been.

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